THINK CONNECTION IS THE NEW CONFETTI? ๐ŸŽŠ

As a fun, #onherterms-y way to celebrate my upcoming 40th, Iโ€™ve been hosting 40 real-time reconnection calls with friends, fam, clients, classmates... even a fave college professor and a digi-friend I'd only ever passed in the FB hallways.

I call it the Sparky 40 Project.

Each convo = lighting a candle on the cake. ๐ŸŽ‚

So far: almost 30 down, 10ish to finish.

Iโ€™m extending the timeline through mid-August (bc Maycember is real), but honestly?

Low-stakes, agenda-free reconnection is a practice I'd like to maintain, indefinitely.

I could record a whole series on what this has stirred up, but for now weโ€™ll start with an audio overview with a tiny dare for you tucked inside (like a color-changing spoon in a 90s cereal box):

๐ŸŽ The Gift of Connection: How I'm celebrating my 40th.

Explorations include, but are not limited to:

  • ๐Ÿ’Ž Why your social circle might be your most overlooked legacy asset

  • โœจ A quiet reason old friendships fade (and a simple way to bring one back to life)

  • โค๏ธ How staying connected is good for your health and longevity #nanagoals

  • โšก๏ธ A perspective shift to make birthdays (Mothers Days, Tuesdays) more enjoyable

  • ๐Ÿ‘‘ Why Iโ€™m officially done waiting to be celebrated

Listen here on Apple, or here on Spotify. ๐ŸŽง

A BIRTHDAY DARE.

I've woven a simple challenge into the episode because I know someone's meant to hear it.

๐Ÿงš๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Somebody is gonna feel the nudge to reach out.

๐Ÿฅฐ Somebody is gonna hear from someone they've missed.

โšก๏ธ Something meaningful will come from all of the above.

Are you that somebody, {first_name}?? ๐Ÿ‘€

Let me know when you listen.

In either case: I'm grateful weโ€™re on the planet at the same time.

It's not my birthday yet, but I'm already celebrating all of us who have one this year ;)

What a gift. ๐ŸŽ

To birthdays and Thursdays,

P.S. Yesterday was my best friend Jadah Sellner's real birthday. If you haven't yet read her book, She Builds, fix that. It's one of the best whole-life (not just business) books out there. 10/10 recommend that you grab a copy for you and one for your bestie. ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™€๏ธ Report back.


Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹ I'm Nikki (Elledge Brown).

Writer, podcaster, and creative advisor for brilliant women who love their work, their people, and their alone time.

As a professional overthinker who believes strongly in INTEGRITY > BALANCE, it's my nerdy pleasure to create and share tools, questions, and frameworks that make it easier to feel good about how weโ€™re showing up โ€” on paper and in practice.

Around here, living like a whole human is the way.

That's what we call On Her Termsยฎ living.

THERE'S ALWAYS MORE TO EXPLORE... ๐Ÿช„


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