

As a fun, #onherterms-y way to celebrate my upcoming 40th, I’ve been hosting 40 real-time reconnection calls with friends, fam, clients, classmates... even a fave college professor and a digi-friend I'd only ever passed in the FB hallways.
I call it the Sparky 40 Project.
Each convo = lighting a candle on the cake. 🎂
So far: almost 30 down, 10ish to finish.
I’m extending the timeline through mid-August (bc Maycember is real), but honestly?
Low-stakes, agenda-free reconnection is a practice I'd like to maintain, indefinitely.
I could record a whole series on what this has stirred up, but for now we’ll start with an audio overview with a tiny dare for you tucked inside (like a color-changing spoon in a 90s cereal box):
🎁 The Gift of Connection: How I'm celebrating my 40th.
Explorations include, but are not limited to:
💎 Why your social circle might be your most overlooked legacy asset
✨ A quiet reason old friendships fade (and a simple way to bring one back to life)
❤️ How staying connected is good for your health and longevity #nanagoals
⚡️ A perspective shift to make birthdays (Mothers Days, Tuesdays) more enjoyable
👑 Why I’m officially done waiting to be celebrated
Listen here on Apple, or here on Spotify. 🎧
A BIRTHDAY DARE.
I've woven a simple challenge into the episode because I know someone's meant to hear it.
🧚🏻♀️ Somebody is gonna feel the nudge to reach out.
🥰 Somebody is gonna hear from someone they've missed.
⚡️ Something meaningful will come from all of the above.
Are you that somebody, {first_name}?? 👀
Let me know when you listen.
In either case: I'm grateful we’re on the planet at the same time.
It's not my birthday yet, but I'm already celebrating all of us who have one this year ;)
What a gift. 🎁
To birthdays and Thursdays,

P.S. Yesterday was my best friend Jadah Sellner's real birthday. If you haven't yet read her book, She Builds, fix that. It's one of the best whole-life (not just business) books out there. 10/10 recommend that you grab a copy for you and one for your bestie. 👯♀️ Report back.

Hi 👋 I'm Nikki (Elledge Brown).
Writer, podcaster, and creative advisor for brilliant women who love their work, their people, and their alone time.
As a professional overthinker who believes strongly in INTEGRITY > BALANCE, it's my nerdy pleasure to create and share tools, questions, and frameworks that make it easier to feel good about how we’re showing up — on paper and in practice.
Around here, thinking like a whole human is the way.
That's what we call On Her Terms® living.

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