As a fun, #onherterms-y way to celebrate my upcoming 40th, Iโve been hosting 40 real-time reconnection calls with friends, fam, clients, classmates... even a fave college professor and a digi-friend I'd only ever passed in the FB hallways.
I call it the Sparky 40 Project.
Each convo = lighting a candle on the cake. ๐
So far: almost 30 down, 10ish to finish.
Iโm extending the timeline through mid-August (bc Maycember is real), but honestly?
Low-stakes, agenda-free reconnection is a practice I'd like to maintain, indefinitely.
I could record a whole series on what this has stirred up, but for now weโll start with an audio overview with a tiny dare for you tucked inside (like a color-changing spoon in a 90s cereal box):
๐ The Gift of Connection: How I'm celebrating my 40th.
Explorations include, but are not limited to:
๐ Why your social circle might be your most overlooked legacy asset
โจ A quiet reason old friendships fade (and a simple way to bring one back to life)
โค๏ธ How staying connected is good for your health and longevity #nanagoals
โก๏ธ A perspective shift to make birthdays (Mothers Days, Tuesdays) more enjoyable
๐ Why Iโm officially done waiting to be celebrated
Listen here on Apple, or here on Spotify. ๐ง
A BIRTHDAY DARE.
I've woven a simple challenge into the episode because I know someone's meant to hear it.
๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ Somebody is gonna feel the nudge to reach out.
๐ฅฐ Somebody is gonna hear from someone they've missed.
โก๏ธ Something meaningful will come from all of the above.
Are you that somebody, {first_name}?? ๐
Let me know when you listen.
In either case: I'm grateful weโre on the planet at the same time.
It's not my birthday yet, but I'm already celebrating all of us who have one this year ;)
What a gift. ๐
To birthdays and Thursdays,
P.S. Yesterday was my best friend Jadah Sellner's real birthday. If you haven't yet read her book, She Builds, fix that. It's one of the best whole-life (not just business) books out there. 10/10 recommend that you grab a copy for you and one for your bestie. ๐ฏโโ๏ธ Report back.
Hi ๐ I'm Nikki (Elledge Brown).
Writer, podcaster, and creative advisor for brilliant women who love their work, their people, and their alone time.
As a professional overthinker who believes strongly in INTEGRITY > BALANCE, it's my nerdy pleasure to create and share tools, questions, and frameworks that make it easier to feel good about how weโre showing up โ on paper and in practice.
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