STUCK BETWEEN TWO OPTIONS?

When you feel like you only have two options…

1. Consider enlisting help so you can see beyond your current perspective. 🤓🙋‍♀️

2. Play w the idea that you actually have FOUR options (this one, that one, a little of both, or neither – wild card!).

3. Try relaxing your grip enough to consider that you can’t make a wrong choice. And remember you can change your mind and create a new option when the why is strong enough. (You’re so much more resourceful than you give yourself credit for.)

The exercise I share in the gift of mom guilt ep can help with this one too. ✨❤️


In case it’s not obvious — I LOVE helping with this ish.


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Hi 👋 I'm Nikki (Elledge Brown).

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