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Choose YourSELFIE. ❤️🍂👑 I posted this p

Choose YourSELFIE. ❤️🍂👑
I posted this pic a few days ago, inspired to share my musings around my natural *cinnamon sugar* hair color. Who knew it would be such a conversation starter?
It brought so many folks out of the digi-woodwork, sparked some delightful convos in my DMs, and led to about 3x my “typical” story views.
Also led me to record an 8-min #onherterms podcast episode and mini-challenge on this topic:
The rules are there are no rules, team.
In biz and in life, we’ve gotta TRUST that our best (real, true, most aligned with who we are right now) people will appreciate our expression du jour.
Goofy, spicy, brilliant, chill, chaotic, thoughtful, emo, fully HUMAN and divine.
The right people are here for it all.
The rest can tap on through.
Visit the link in my bio or DM me 👑 for the full message.
I’d love to see the selfie YOU choose.

Allowing the FULLness of who you are is the new *h

Allowing the FULLness of who you are is the new *having it all together* — pass it on. And remind me tomorrow please. Thx. 💞

Years ago when we had the privilege to call Hawaii

Years ago when we had the privilege to call Hawaii home, I dreamt of being able to come back for regular visits to see old friends, reinforce sweet memories, and support our local favorites. This summer we got to introduce Noey to this special place, although in my heart I believe she’s been there with us before.✨
Not pictured in this reel: lazy days, bedtime chaos, naptime screentime, Lego Masters!, sand in all the places, thirsty geckos, lots of dish washing, and a brotherly brawl or two for good measure.
Mahalo for having us back, Oahu. We love you. ❤️

Pensive summer selfie in one of my fave spots on E

Pensive summer selfie in one of my fave spots on Earth. Any guesses? ✨
Also: hi! 👋❤️

It’s a beautiful thing to shine bright and excel

It’s a beautiful thing to shine bright and excel in our work, *and* it can be a really hard thing to untangle those “wins” from our inherent worth as humans.
In case you need the reminder today:
Before you made a dollar, a grade, a goal, a PEEP!… you were worthy of love and respect.
No matter what goals you've reached or haven't reached, no matter what your follower count or balance sheet says… your presence here (in the human family) matters.
*You* are the gift. 🎁

Remember: it's your holiday time too. ❤️ If y

Remember: it's your holiday time too. ❤️
If you can feel the overwhelm and resentment creeping in, the metaphorical plate overflowing, and your mind / mouth arguing you’ve just gotta “make it through” the holidays before you get to rest / play / enjoy something again …
Allow me to offer an alternate storyline. One that involves you sitting still long enough to press mute on everybody else’s expectations so you can hear YOURSELF think. 👑✨🎁
To reclaim and redefine what the holidays could look like on YOUR terms. Loving yourself and your people enough to be honest about what’s working and what’s not, and going from there.
I’m hosting a live co-workshop to address this (super common yet super draining) pattern next week - because if you’re feeling this way now, it’s likely you’re feeling it at many other times of year too.
While that may be working for you in some form (shout out to my gold star teacher’s pet crew! ⭐️), do you think it could be fun to explore a different option now? 🤗😎
Me too. So let’s do it. You + me + a cozy group of powerhouse humans open to reimagining the way they experience this time of year.
Bring your shopping list, your dinner plans, your uncomfortable family convos, or nothing but yourself and your curiosity and let me help you craft a holiday plan that's actually YOURS.
✨HOLIDAYS: On Her Terms.✨ One workshop hosted twice. Next Wednesday and Saturday. 10-1p and 9-12p Central. $111 for personalized support in great company (because magic happens when you decide it will). 🪄
Come to all or part of both sessions. Do the work with us or literally do your shopping. This time is for you. 🎁
Save your seat here >> https://nikkielledgebrown.thrivecart.com/holidays/
Would love to help you bring more joy to YOUR world (and thus, the whole actual world!) as this year comes to a close. ❤️

I’ve been thinking lately about the notion that

I’ve been thinking lately about the notion that “what is for you cannot pass you.”
Sounds comforting for sure, and I absolutely trust in divine connections, synchronicity, and support from what my friend @susanferraro calls Team Other Side, BUT ALSO:
Effort IS required. Action IS required.
Not that I recommend it as a wealth-building strategy, but for conceptual example… the lotto will *absolutely* pass you by if you never buy a ticket.
The biz (book, relationship, driver’s license?) you’re dreaming of cannot show up unless YOU DO.
((I remind myself of this when I’m tempted to snuggle back under the cozy creative covers, hitting snooze on what I KNOW I’d love to create and experience in this lifetime because I'm scared of what may happen when I try.))
Rest when you need to, for SURE, *and also* please remember that while you’ve been blessed with time, this life won’t last forever.
There’s no Secret Santa working solo behind the scenes to bring YOUR #goals to life.
It’s okay to let that light a fire under your 🍑!
You have an active role to play in creating what is “for” you.
The only Q is: are you honestly ready and willing to commit to it?

In case I ever forget that time I played dress up

In case I ever forget that time I played dress up in 2021…✨👑✨
(Thanks for the special occasion, K+C! Now we’ll have to create our own. ❤️)

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