BETTER THAN YOUR BIRTH CHART?🪐

Just me, {first_name}, or have you tried at least a tool or ten to better understand yourself and your behavior patterns over the years?

✨ StrengthsFinder

✨ Myers-Briggs

✨ Enneagram

✨ Human Design

✨ Astrology

✨ That one quiz that told you which type of bread you are 🙃

No judgment here.

I heart my Chani App and my CliftonStrengths dashboard. 💘

But here's what most of these tools miss:

They're still based on external systems.

Designed to describe us, not reflect us. 🪩

Helpful, sure. But not the whole picture. (Or we wouldn’t resonate with notes from other “types” or evolve out of our own results. And we often do.)

The method that's made the most MEANINGFUL difference in my life?

Learning how to read my own life like a set of clues.

Not “what should I value?” but "what do I already value, and how do I know?"

No guessing. No BSing. Just evidence. 🕵🏻‍♀️

Screenshots. Statements. Saved posts. Safari tabs.

If we took a timelapse of your day, week, month, what would we see?

That's where the real story lives. 🍿

I’ve used this process over and over in my own life (and with clients) to realign habits, relationships, offers, and expectations.

It’s not about labeling yourself. 📦

It is about seeing yourself -- clearly, compassionately, and with receipts. 🎁

And next Wednesday, I’m walking you through it live.

💎THE WHAT MATTERS WORKSHOP💎

Wednesday, April 2 @ 11am CT

$111 USD includes live session + private podcast replay
Click here to save your seat. >> 🪑

I’ve shared this work with private clients for years, but this is the first time I’m offering it as a one-time, focused workshop.

It's a powerful first step or a perfect refresh. ♻️

No pre-work. No pressure. Pull up a chair, walk through it live with me, and ask your questions as they come.

Truth, patterns, lightbulbs. 💡

Whether you join live and/or work with us through the replay, you’ll leave with a clear view of your own personalized hierarchy of values, which you can then use to:

💎 Make faster, clearer, less emo-driven decisions

💎 Shift your habits and goals to align what you actually care about

💎 Parent, partner, and work with less pressure and more presence

💎 Communicate more effectively (by learning to speak in someone else's values)

NOTE: I’m also opening a handful of VIP spots that include a 50-minute 1:1 call + a week of spacious Voxer support. We’ll dive deeper to refine what you discover in the workshop, answer your Qs, and explore the most valuable applications together.

Let me know if that’s your style and I’ll send the link separately.

Otherwise:

Save your seat here. 🪑

Because when the world feels uncertain (understatement 🙃), your clearest filter for making decisions is knowing what actually matters to you right now.

Back soon.

P.S. You know I'm not one for hype-y hype. But now that it's happening, it's taking serious self control to not email you 3x a day about this 😆

If I could only teach one process for the rest of my life, it would be this values work.

Over and over, with different applications, across every habit, relationship, goal, and word pickle.

That’s how foundational it is.

A practical prereq for #onherterms living. 💎

If you have any Qs for me, hit reply. Glad to clarify!

Or if you're ready:

Join us here.

And forward this email to invite a friend to register with you! Once you go through this, you'll want a buddy to share notes with 👯‍♀️

Hi 👋 I'm Nikki (Elledge Brown).

Writer, podcaster, and creative advisor for brilliant women who love their work, their people, and their alone time.

As a professional overthinker who believes strongly in INTEGRITY > BALANCE, it's my nerdy pleasure to create and share tools, questions, and frameworks that make it easier to feel good about how we’re showing up — on paper and in practice.

Around here, living like a whole human is the way.

That's what we call On Her Terms® living.