When you think he’s stalling, but he’s actually in deep (super precious) thought… 💞💞💞
Tonight, after B (finally 😩) finished his shower and put on his jammies, he snuggled up like he had something to tell me.
🤔 “I forgot what I was gonna say…”
😏 “Go brush your teeth + you’ll remember.”
🤔“Oh! I remember. Wait. What was it?”
😑 “Dude. Go brush your teeth + it’ll come to you when you’re not trying.”
🤗 “No no, I got it I got it.”
😳 “What is it, bud?”
😌 “We can talk every morning. Morning and night. And even some noons…”
😉 “But we already talk every morning and night!”
Then it clicked.
😭 “Do you mean when we don’t live together any more?”
😍 “I will ALWAYS love to talk with you every day! That’s a great plan. Were you thinking about this because Nana came over last night to play with you guys while Daddy and I went on our date?”
🤔 “Want me to come babysit YOUR kiddos one day while you go on a date?”
Pencil me in for that Tuesday night (+ plenty more) in 2043, buddy. I’ll be there. 😘
NOTES TO FUTURE SELF:
I know, I know. You’re welcome for documenting this tonight. 😭
I knew it was a keeper. Don’t forget B insisted that he snap this selfie. After we called for a redo because of a fake smile. 😬
Also remember how magical it is that *JUST TODAY* you read / recorded a voice memo (of that journal entry on your visions for motherhood + these kiddos):
“Even when they’re old enough to leave, they / we design our lifestyles so we can spend a lot of (face)time together and we text / chat daily.”
When you read it out loud you tweaked it to “regularly” because daily felt a bit too specific. But then B proposed three-a-days, so WHO ARE WE TO ARGUE?? 😜
Glad you clicked on this memory today. And please post another to add to the collection ASAP.
It’s our fave use for Facebook. ❤️